Welcome to Day 1 of the ‘5 days to Self-Love’ Challenge! Today’s challenge is to get clear on your Core Desired Feelings. There’s no doubt, we do what we do to feel a certain way.

5 Questions & steps to help you discover your Core Desired Feelings
In response to the following questions, list how you want to feel. After you answer the questions, notice the commonalities – your Core Desired Feelings are hidden there.
How do you want to feel within the category of…
- Livelihood and lifestyle?
- Body and wellness?
- Creativity and learning?
- Relationships and society
- Essence and spirituality?
GO FURTHER…
So tell me:
- How do you want to feel in your life?
- How do you want to feel in the deepest part of your being?
- What feelings make you come alive?
- What feelings make you feel more aligned with your true self?
Share your Core Desired Feelings on social media tagging me @designthelifestyleyoudesire on Instagram, @kiransingh on Twitter and #DesignTheLifestyleYouDesire.
HERE ARE MY CORE DESIRED FEELINGS ♡

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